Today is Lori's last day of school. No more homework until midnight, no more missed family events, no more stress! There were times when it felt like this year would never end. Lori and I were talking last night about how thankful we are not be where we were a year ago. She was just starting school, she was about to start a new job, the kids would not be home for another 8 months and Kennedy was about to have a year of misery thanks to a really crappy teacher.
We feel like huge weights have been lifted off of us. The good thing about having a really bad year is that you don't take the good for granted. I am much more aware of the time Lori and I get to spend together as a couple. I am much more aware of the time we get as a family. I am much more aware of the times the kids are playing nicely. I am much more aware of how much a teacher impacts your child's life.
We find ourselves saying "enjoy this moment" when the kids do something nice for a sibling or there is temporary harmony in the house. Enjoying the moment is something I do not want to loose sight of when things return to normal. That is all we have are moments. Some are terrible and we get through them. Some are nice and we are grateful for them. The moments add up to days, weeks and years and compile a life that I would not trade for anything. ...most days!
4 comments:
Shelby & Lori,
I'm so glad that you'll be able to spend more time together! I loved the post - so true. I can't wait to see you!
Sharon
Wow - this is a real milestone and it will have a wonderfully positive effect! Congrats to the whole family! Funny how far this last year as taken everyone!
I told you I was going to leave a comment. I am so happy for you and Lori. I know you guys will make great parents. I am looking forward to meet your family and I can't wait to see you.
Tonya
What a great blog!! I am so happy I ran into you today and got to see you and your girls...they are just beautiful!!
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